My biggest problem was, I was only satisfied with top, best and whenever I fell down, started yelling and blamed others, myself and nature for all that.
I started to work hard to overcome my deficiencies but still there came new deficiencies and all that hurt me. I began to think that I am not good for anything, because I often made mistakes. I wanted myself perfect but I could never be.
Then, I started to realize that I am a human who faces ups and down in life and certain response in one situation cannot decide what I am.
We make efforts, sometimes they’re fruitful and sometimes not but the matter is that we can’t stop because of one failure; it’s against the nature of man.
We can’t judge ourselves nor others just because of one situation for all the life .You ‘ve all flavours in yourself , sometime you’re good, sometimes not but the important thing is you are still fighting for yourself, for betterment.
Sometimes you’re cool, sometimes not.
Sometimes you’re at top, sometimes not .Sometimes you’re angel, sometimes not. Sometimes you’re an achiever, sometimes a loser.
Sometimes you’re lover, sometimes hater. All the human emotions are all in you. You can’t remove any one of them but you can balance them with your sensibility.
Richard Carlson said, Make Peace with Imperfection in his book. Don’t sweat the small stuff”. The need for perfection and the desire for inner peace have conflict with each other. Whenever we want something in a certain way better than it is in order to make it perfect then the conflict starts with inner peace.
We have issue, we want everything perfect rather than being thank full for what we have, we focus on the faults that the person and things have and try to fix them and that fixation mostly cause disturbance and conflicts. When we focus on the areas that have faults and are weak rather than accept them the way they’re that indicates our dissatisfaction and discontentment.
Life is not so perfect and it cannot be, the matter is that you can perform better with all these imperfections by improving them but you can’t always be perfect, so it’s OK with faults but they wouldn’t be repeated again and again.
Focusing on imperfection pulls us away from our goal of being kind and gentle. Don’t get stuck with your imperfections, it just hurts you more and more, just accept the things the way they’re. Because Life is Okay the way it is.
It’s OK with imperfections never stop yourself from performing your best and improving the wrongs with life and fixing them but it’s about realizing the fact that although there’s always a better way to do things but this doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy the things the way they are already present.
Whenever you habit of perfection insists that things should be like that and this, just remind yourself life is okay the way it is. In the absence of our judgment, you will see that things are better the way they’re. When you begin to eliminate the habit of making things perfect you’ll get perfection in every area of life and inner peace.